Masochist dating

I am not a serial dater nor date more than one person at a time.

I like to focus on the task at hand lol Well a bit a out me, I am a high energy individual that enjoys life.

I love to travel and most of all I love traveling to see family! I enjoy board games, great wine, singing loud, shopping, talking, making other people smile.

I'm 33 years old and hoping to find a mature, well rounded man who truly wants to date, spend time together and build a healthy mental and physical bond.And my answer may surprise you: widowers are some of they best, most eligible, grownup men out there. Well, for starters, a man who had a good, long marriage can be a great catch! But they developed great communication and worked through them. You don’t know the situation – maybe she was sick a long time which often means he’s ready to start new…learn his story, don’t make assumptions. I can’t even imagine the agony of living through that at any time of one’s life; certainly any time before, say, our 80s.One of the most important things I help women with is becoming good pickers – you know, being able to spot the gems even when they’re not the obvious, shiny ones. He probably knows how to love, communicate, commit, work through problems and misses being married. I dated several widowers in my single decades and had an extended relationship with one.I am fairly easy going and don't let much bother me.I enjoy spending time with my friends and laughing all night with them.